tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3495622859323058834.post1483395257998677364..comments2022-12-23T02:21:31.320-05:00Comments on ONCE MORE WITH FEELING: Are you Settling or Challenging?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00399266373570613570noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3495622859323058834.post-76257412616936267592010-02-04T13:41:02.371-05:002010-02-04T13:41:02.371-05:00I just found your blog and love it. I had the str...I just found your blog and love it. I had the strongest reaction to this post in that it made me feel sad because I do not challenge myself at all. Forget just settling for "beige" - I settle for sub-par and ask nothing of myself musically. I could never figure out why until one day I realized I do this because I'm afraid of challenging and failing...somehow it felt easier to choose to fail than to actually try and fail. I am increasingly frustrated by this and would love to break though it - what do you do with this?! I have started to make small changes in other areas of my life (this kind of attitude tends to permeate everything) but it's such a slow process. How do you break down the wall and work through the fear?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com